The 43 

  1. The cadence and frequency of the laugh
  2. The curling up of the lips 
  3. The chest of hair
  4. The playing of guitar
  5. The imagination
  6. The soccer fanatacism
  7. The wit
  8. The compulsion to do good
  9. The eating of plants and not beasts
  10. The patience
  11. The fathering
  12. The lashes of the eye
  13. The compassion
  14. The bearing of great burden with great grace
  15. The loving
  16. The selection of good music
  17. The inquisitiveness
  18. The political awakeness
  19. The relentless pun
  20. The hunger for knowing
  21. The relentless optimism
  22. The affection
  23. The resilience
  24. The good taste in outer wear
  25. The generosity
  26. The bottom
  27. The thickness of the hair
  28. The hairiness of the hair
  29. The playfulness
  30. The dedication
  31. The spark 
  32. The social grace
  33. The humility
  34. The wonder
  35. The domestic alchemy
  36. The softness
  37. The hardness
  38. The love of mountains
  39. The love of sea
  40. The love of trees
  41. The love of ice cream
  42. The effortless joy
  43. The hours not yet spent