The 43 

1. The cadence and frequency of the laugh
2. The curling up of the lips 
3. The chest of hair
4. The playing of guitar
5. The imagination
6. The soccer fanatacism
7. The wit
8. The compulsion to do good
9. The eating of plants and not beasts
10. The patience
11. The fathering
12. The lashes of the eye
13. The compassion
14. The bearing of great burden with great grace
15. The loving
16. The selection of good music
17. The inquisitiveness
18. The political awakeness
19. The relentless pun
20. The hunger for knowing
21. The relentless optimism
22. The affection
23. The resilience
24. The good taste in outer wear
25. The generosity
26. The bottom
27. The thickness of the hair
28. The hairiness of the hair
29. The playfulness
30. The dedication
31. The spark 
32. The social grace
33. The humility
34. The wonder
35. The domestic alchemy
36. The softness
37. The hardness
38. The love of mountains
39. The love of sea
40. The love of trees
41. The love of ice cream
42. The effortless joy
43. The hours not yet spent